(We’re both in our early 20s)
In October, we met on Tinder and immediately hit it off. We have had countless theoretical conversations that truly outline our inner thoughts, both how they contradict and how they seamlessly integrate. Things like parenting, life goals, financial outlooks, familial values, etc.
we are both introspective and analytical; we can communicate well and articulately.
He’s moving in with me next month and we’ve discussed engagement and planned our wedding. We’ve met with the conclusion that March would be the month we would want it to happen.
I have had more motivation now to pay off my debt (~20,000 both car and card), lean into the work I’m doing, and save for retirement and a house.
I am more motivated to appreciate my family, to work, clean, etc… because he makes me so terrifyingly happy.
We’re both already building each other up to succeed in just the matter of winter.
What do you think? Is this impulsive? Or just a lucky coincidence?
EDIT: punctuation