I’ve been talking to this guy for 4 months. We went on a date everything went amazing. There was no awkward moments he was great. He texted me immediately after to make sure I got home safe and it was so cute he sent me 2 selfies of himself and we exchanged selfies it was cute I loved that. Occasionally we do that, the pictures are all pg. We talk almost, if not, everyday. We didn’t kiss or do anything until 3 months of talking. He told me he overthinks about making moves sometimes so he was teasing me one day we hung out and I went for the kiss. he later told me he did that purposely because he wanted me to kiss him. he’s mentioned he likes me to initiate things like that and he’ll take it from there. I think because he doesn’t want to cross a boundary. He’s very respectful. We have not had sex, we almost did twice but the first time I stopped because I didn’t want to rush into it & then 2nd time he stopped because of the same. he’s religious and wants to wait till marriage. Which I am MORE than ok with. I also do not rush into sex but it was a heat of the moment thing. We both previously discussed that we’re very intentional about sex. Further on we hung out a few times after that and we continue to talk everyday. But I don’t know where it’s going? He’s a very blunt texter (doesn’t use emojis much or say “lol”) but he makes the effort to talk to me everyday which I appreciate so much. We talk about a lot, movies, hobbies, music, family etc. he always checks how my day is. Whenever we do hang out we always have a good time. I love his company
I’m just afraid of asking his intentions and it coming off as me wanting a “title” immediately. I don’t expect him to make me his girlfriend right when I ask but I do want to know it will lead there? We never had a talk about intentions because we hit it off so naturally i never questioned or thought about it till now, After realizing how long we’ve been talking.
After all this it seems reasonable to ask right? Especially after this long? I know he’s the type to take it slow and I don’t mind that. I overthink as well sometimes so I’m not sure if I’m just overthinking this. I also worry about my wording because I don’t want to come off too blunt if I ask. Because I know he overthinks too, I genuinely just want to know.