M20, So, I’ve started about 16 conversations with people in dating apps.
They all started the same.
Hello, how are you, fine, you, same and then its like
Void
Emptiness
Absolutely blank brain
I mean what am I supposed to say next?
I realize that I can talk with almost anyone. About anything. But when it comes to dating apps. My brain instantly stops.
Should I ask them out after finding out what music they listen to or what?
There’s the question. What do I ask next? What do I say?
2 comments
You know next to nothing about these people. Ask them questions and get to know them. Don’t wait too long to ask them to meet up
I get it, it’s honestly so hard to keep the energy when it’s like having the same conversation over and over again. But every now and again you will stumble on someone where the conversation just takes off & you’ll have no issue keeping the vibe going. As a general rule when that happens I agree to go on dates because the chemistry is already good it normally flows when we meet.
Just hang in there, comment on things in there pics that peak your interest & watch out for the ones that naturally meet your energy. You’ll be fine!