my gf said she doesnt feel nervous or anything but whenever we have sex regardless how turned on i am it just doesnt stay hard while inside. while pushing it in i can feel it starting to bend a little bit and my girth is fairly consistent the tip is a tiny bit bigger than the shaft so its a struggle all the way in even when we use tons of lube and do other kinds of play before penetration. wouldnt consider myself as being super thick or anything maybe 6.25 or 6.5 with a ring which we have tried already. shes super attractive to me, just thinking about having sex with her always makes me hard, and when we shower together i normally get hard super fast and it stays up the entire time. so we really dont know what to do is there any way to stretch her out more an hour or two before we actually have sex? really lost dont know if its a me thing or a her thing as far as performing goes but idk if theres some other guys who have made the mistake of not taking the cap off or loosening it before using it but it kind of feels like that.