I try to be kind with everyone taking care of small things mostly wishing everyone one a good day, helping them whenever they need it, respect my colleagues ( they are all guys ) but I don’t think they see me as a kind person. I think they use my kindness and me not saying no to what they ask for as granted ( like if they ask me to do smth I say yes and do it for them ). Maybe I am confused between being kind to people and letting people use me for what they want ( it can be small chores like bringing something from somewhere or smth like that ) then when I end up doing some mistake they don’t treat me like I would have treated them like I treat me junior. Also they do back bitching behind each other’s back don’t seem to like each other so when they ask me about what I don’t like about any of them when they are back bitching I just say I don’t do all this i don’t like to speak bad about people. They all have some or the other things which are not good about them I just identify it but I don’t like to talk about it. At that also they seem to get upset by saying he is acting he just don’t want to say it in front of us.
Anyways how do I make sure that they don’t take the good things in me as granted