TL;DR: Can I tell my coworker that I want to stop our “situationship” because of our strong and obvious chemistry that I don’t want to feed into?
Hello! Do you think I can be honest with my coworker and tell them that I know of our obvious crush?
Nothing has happened, we just had chats on our company’s online platform and had 2 breakfasts together in the cafeteria but we have a lot in common and it certainly does not help the situation that I find them extremely hot…
He is flirtatious with me, I catched him blushing and his pupils dialating and shit… So I want to end this as he is married and it is most likely just him filling in the missing pieces with his wife.
I thought I’d tell him something like: “look, I don’t think talking this much and having breakfasts together is a good idea anymore and I think you know exactly what I mean by that. We have to stop this as it is”. What do you think, is it a good idea to be honest or should I just ignore him from now on?