M (21) dating F (20). I’ve recently been dating this girl for two months (fairly new) everything is going great, she sends me videos and pictures of her day to day activities, updates me with everything. Talks on the phone and even falls asleep on the phone. I even met some of her family (pretty early on I know) I love it!!
Recently we had an argument which resulted in us not talking for 5 days! We was both on each others mind as when we made up it was pretty obvious. Our main source of communication is iMessage but I also have her on Snapchat aswell as TikTok! However, I don’t have INSTAGRAM and she knows this and she never ‘mentioned’ her instagram handle to me as there’s literally no point as I don’t have it.
I met up with some uni friends (I’m from uk) and I was mentioning my new girl and they wanted to see her instagram, after some searching (as I didn’t know her @) I finally found it to realise she’s private. Which is fine so I just showed them a picture from my phone. My friend and I met up today when I was on his phone (he gave me permission) I decided to check my girls instagram when I noticed that she added ‘C.F 🌹’ as her name on instagram (not bio) but name this mean she won’t be able to change it for 14 days (remember this is not her handle) now she has no idea my friend found her insta or such. Now my name is CARLOS but my surname doesn’t start with the letter F. My question is, IS she PLAYING me?? Because if she is I’ll just leave before I get broken and fall in love. None of her siblings or family members have those initials. She did lose a family member who’s name I do not know which would be that (C.F)
I don’t really want to call her out as she will know I found her instagram haha.
Any suggestion would help
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* fall deeper in love.
* and her family member who passed away I don’t know their name but it could be CF but I’m not sure as they never mentioned their name to me. But every other family member such as siblings, mum dad I know their name and surname etc
I mean I think it’s pretty normal to say “hey my friend was curious about who I’d been seeing and searched you on insta, and he noticed you had someone’s initials in your name but they’re not mine, what’s that about?”
Like you do need to know, unless you plan to just drop this girl entirely.
If she reacts badly, you were going to leave anyways! No harm done. If it’s a misunderstanding, that’s great and now your mind doesn’t have to wander.
You could make an Instagram though and pretend you found it that way…. The algorithm suggests all sorts of people to me to follow just based on other socials and my contacts so it’s entirely believable that she’d pop up in recommended, without her having told you her handle.
Maybe it’s just a nickname only her friends know. Just chill out and ask her about it.
Ask? Don’t freak out or accuse anyone of things unless you have proof?