Based on recent experiences, women in their 30-38y range have been rejecting me a lot because I text too much, text too soon, text a little late, or get even one text wrong that makes them lose interest.. so basically I have only 1 try if she replies to my nice opener and if it hits wrong, they’re gone. It sucks..
In an ideal world, I’d like some frequency of responses.. maybe 2-3 a day. And don’t judge me based on one thing..
for eg.. matched with 2 women Friday evening and they asked what I was doing.. I said I’m going out with friends a bit late. Then they asked if I like partying late, I said I don’t usually stay late but like going out, having a few drinks but not getting drunk. One of them (whose first date idea was to get drinks) just flat out judged me that I party and it just kept going south. Typically I’m back by 10-11 pm on Fridays, but that night I came back at 3 since I went late. When the second one heard it, and I told her it was an exception, she just said she doesn’t do late nights and just stopped responding..
Men.. what do you do to hit the right chord?
Women.. what do you want me to say? My messages are almost always based on their profile prompts.. a splash of something funny but that’s about it.