Im a 28F not ready for a relationship, I got out of a 8 year toxic relationship two years ago, and since have been focusing on myself and growing myself. However, I’m still not emotionally ready to commit to someone but I miss the physical intimacy to some degree. I go on a few dates, maybe 1/2 per month.
I think the best thing would be to find a friend with benefits. However, it’s quite hard? I’m a little particular, as I’m hesitant to have sex with someone on the first encounter because I’m sure that’d just lead to a one night stand. Seems counterintuitive but I also get put off when a guy is super sexual straight away, but don’t mind working towards that (e.g after a few days of texting or after 2/3 times of meeting)… which is still kindve soon but feels a little more comfortable.
What are some of your tips to finding a Friend With Benefits?