A male friend recently confessed me he has had a crush on me for a while now, but he never told me because he was ok with “being just friends”. He told me exactly these words: “I’ve been crushing on you for a long time, I like you as a person. Because you love your career so much, you are talented, fun, intelligent and pretty, you love classical music and are into arts, and I truly enjoy talking to you…”
Since that day we’ve been texting everyday, and to be honest I feel physically attracted to him, but that’s it. Do you think I should tell him that? I’m single now and would like to see what happens with him (no strings attached). But I don’t know if I should tell him, since I guess his feelings for me are deeper than mine, and I wouldn’t want to hurt him either. What’s your opinion? Would it ruin the friendship? Ps. I suggested to have a Netflix and chill at his place and he was happy about it, but I’m having my thoughts now…
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He definitely cares about you more than you care for him. If you just want to use him for his penis, I say don’t go there. You definitely can’t be friends if he ends up falling in love with you. And all for what? Some sex? The easiest thing to obtain for a woman? I wouldn’t risk it.
Physical compatibility is hard to obtain for couples. If you want to bone him- bone him. Have an effective conversation and then run it! If he’s hurt after this then that’s his inability to be honest with you and himself.