How to know if you are actually in love?

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1. When all the songs make sense

2. Being lonely makes it hard to say… but if you find yourself spending time with another person / other people but you have this person in mind anyways, that’ll make it very clear you’re a smitten kitten

3. At first in the beginning it’s “head over heels”, puppy-love, honeymoon phase, feelings of lust and sexual excitement. But real love takes time and growth. Seeing how each other reacts under hard times, rough struggles of real life and how you support each other and communicate. Real love takes time to build an actual foundation of trust and loyalty. People are too quickly to give up in relationships nowadays and don’t know what real love is by sticking through with each other through thick and thin. No relationship is perfect but learning to talk and create a healthy relationship with boundaries, support, etc is important. Trust should be earned and developed, not simply given because they persuaded to sweep you off your feet and get you into bed quickly. You can have feelings for someone end that grows with time, love grows with time.