So just for some context I’ve been on and off with this guy for almost a year now. We have a complicated relationship but have recently decided to start seeing each other exclusively and seriously. I was thrilled about the opportunity until he revealed to me that he bought a sex doll. At first it didn’t seem like a big deal to me, we both own sex toys. I figured he bought something more akin to a large fleshlight/stroker. But when he excitedly sent me pictures of it, I was horrified. It’s a $3,000 hyper realistic sex doll with the proportions of a real human woman. Not only does it look creepy but it kind of hurt my feelings to find out he felt the need to spend so much money to simulate sex when he could just have it with me. We have a really fulfilling sex life although we haven’t seen each other much lately because we were off for a period of time and he lives over an hour away. I did my best to explain the way I was feeling to him but I just don’t think I’m okay with something like this. Am I overreacting here? Is there a way to salvage this relationship?