I’m a 29 year old male. Have shown interest in marrying a girl also 29 year olds. families involved.we both live and work in England. Recently moved here. My parents are in Pakistan. Her mother is in England along with her eldest sister( married). Her dad passed away when she was in university. Her eldest sister had her mom for a few years in England but now they’re moving to dubai and saying that we should keep my fiancé mother after marriage. I have no problem with her mother. She’s a simple woman. Yet I feel it’s unfair as the mother has 3 elder siblings. All married. One in America ( mum has America visa) , the son ( who should ideally take care of her mum) in Canada. And the eldest sister who is now going to dubai. Is it really fair for them to impose this on us when we are young. Just started working. Trying to settle. obviously would be married soon InshaAllah but we wouldn’t have any privacy whatsoever. We can’t travel abroad every now and then as we have to think about an elderly mother at home. We can’t be intimate. I really think it’s unfair. I do feel bad saying it’s not something I prefer and I’m fine after a few years when we have made our memories. And are more settled to have her stay. And she can always come every now and then for a week or two to stay but for her to stay permanently. It’s bothering me. ( reminding again I adore the mum as well. Nothing personal. Just every decision of our lives later on if this happens would be affected and our privacy gone. Please advice