me f18 and my situationship/fwb m19 have been talking consistently for about 3 months now. weve both confessed we like each other, we go out on dates at least once every week, we talk and call almost every hour of the day. we dont really act like fwbs even though weve agreed on that label during a long talk about what we were

we agreed not to be in a committed or exclusive relationship because we both havent healed from our exes yet, and hes said hes alright with me talking to other guys, because he regularly clubs and sometimes shit happens with other girls when ur drunk, and he doesnt want me to feel hurt if anything happens. im fine with this.

however i recently hooked up with someone and i didnt tell him and i feel like shit tbh, because we were still talking consistently then. and even if he said hes fine with me “talking to other guys”, im not sure if that applies to sex? can someone help me navigate this? did i cheat on him? should i tell him about this recent sexual encounter?

tldr not sure if me hooking up with someone else while im in a situationship considers as cheating, really anxious about what i did.

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