I feel like most of the men I know prefer women who are either, serious/aloof/mysterious or cute/quiet/sweet. But are there any men who like women that are goofy/quirky/silly?
I have a hard time meeting men and I think it’s maybe because of the fact that I:
– talk a lot and like to share fun facts
– am awkward and clumsy
– usually have an upbeat/positive additude about things
– smile incessantly
– get really excited about random things like a particularly soft patch of moss or a cool guitar riff
– like to carry out goofy schemes like hosting elaborate themed parties or getting a vending machine in my house that dispenses tiny random items
– enjoy stupid humor like bad puns
I feel like all of the aforementioned qualities have most men thinking I’m annoying. All of the guys who really love me as a person only want to be friends never date. I have posted my dating profile to reddit and it doesnt seem that I’m ungodly ugly or that this is my main issue. Is a girl like me just not an attractive type and I should count myself out when it comes to dating because I’m too weird?