Around 3 years ago my partner and I were having sex and while she liked my balls, withour consent, she went a little to low and rimmed me. I loved it and didn’t even realized it until she told me. Since then, we tried lots of things and here and there she mentions she want to do it again because “i loved it” in her words. But I feel weird and afraid to judge myself and say “no”.
Other than that, I tried to rim her once as well, while taking a shower together, with consent but she felt ashamed and didn’t let me lick her twice, even. So I stopped. I think that eating her ass out would be a qay to get started with anal play and trying to get her to try anal sex with me.
How to proceed with:
1. Getting myself ready to ask her and feel her rimming me?
2. Getting myself ready and her ready and conifdent to her her ass licked?
3. How to start anal play with her? Penetrating her only.