So until recently I have never experienced a GSpot orgasm (and rarely had orgasms at all with a partner until my current one). I discovered through self exploration recently and hadn’t had a chance to try with my boyfriend bc we had taken turns being sick and not feeling well enough to do anything. We were both finally feeling better last night and sex was*amazing* like after not having it for almost a month it felt like finding water in a desert 🤣
So many times I felt like I was so super close to cumming from penetration but I could never fully get there. I know many women can’t and I thought I was one of them (and I still might be) but I was right there at the edge and I am obsessed with figuring out why I couldn’t get all the way there.
He then went down on me and I was having a similar issue with not being able to cum, but he knows that if he’s persistent and patient he will eventually get my clit to cum. He puts his fingers in me about halfway through the process and about ten minutes later both my gspot and my clit were cumming. Then I had another orgasm right after and that’s never happened!
But whhhy can’t it happen during sex?
He’s a great lover and always makes sure to use fingers/tongue whatever is needed to make my clit cum but I would love to be able to cum from him inside of me and not just his fingers(even though that experience was fucking mind blowing).
Anyone have any ideas on why I can’t get quite get there or tips that might help me figure out how to achieve what I’m wanting?