I am in a current situationship and it’s stressing me out to the point where I feel like I should really move on.
My current crush has attachment issues (we aren’t together so idk what to refer to her as besides my crush) and I think she is a fearful avoidant
basically this is what she does… When things are good as in, I show her how much I care about her… she ends up pushing me away. For example, we were supposed to hang out one night but then the night before she says she wants to catch up with work stuff. She picks a different day to hang out but I have a busy schedule so I have been putting it off and I also don’t feel like I should adjust my plans for a reschedule (this is the 2nd time she has done this to me and not once have I bailed out on our plans)
Now she shows me that she wants to hang out but I respect my own boundaries and I am refusing to hang out with her for now. I can feel the tension between us and I can feel her anxiety. When we were at a get together, she tried to be around me but I can’t help but feel the opposite so I do what I do best which is ignore her. I’m just sick of how she is with me it’s so off and on. I really do like her a lot but is there something else I can do for her to want me in a healthy way?
For some reason I can’t post this in the attachment theory section