I (24F) have been with my bf (21M) for nearly a year now. I’ve had an ample amount of exploring new things when it comes to sex (big advocate for trying something once) but my partner has not. I’m thinking it’s the age or maybe his stubborn personality but every time I bring up eating his ass (most of the time, jokingly) he shuts me down right away. I’ve done it previously and every time the guy has loved it so i’m pretty confident he will too but he’s just so set on not trying it. Sometimes i want to slip my tongue down there when giving head just to catch him off guard because I’m sure he’ll fall in love with the feeling but I’m very big on consent and can’t bring myself to do it that way. Any tips or thoughts? It’s honestly driving me insane since it’s a big kink of mine /:
EDIT:
thank you to everyone who’s given feedback. i was no way trying to come off like i was blatantly going to do something he wasn’t wanting to do. like i said i’m really big on consent. i’ll forget about wanting to do this from time to time, it’s really not something that would make or break the relationship it’s just something i’d like to experience with him if it was possible. i’ve definitely got a better pov from all of you so thanks again!