My (24F) boyfriend (27M) of 2.5 years brought up losing weight which I don’t mind but I absolutely hated his delivery. He asked if I had been working out because we’re currently living apart. I let him know that I started and my goal was 15 pounds he said “that’s good, but let’s try for 30”, which I found to be so rude. I asked him why he was even bringing up my weight because it’s a topic I’m super sensitive about especially with the year I’ve had in 2023 (anxiety, depression, miscarriage). I asked if that was something that would effect our relationship, he mentioned it would not but he also said he would be more attracted to me if I lost about 35 pounds and looked like how I did when we first got together.
Tl;Dr: My boyfriend asked me to lose weight and said he’d be more attracted to me if I did should I be upset?