i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months now and we became intimate 1 month ago. Things have been going great except when he said I am “worthless” and lived a “slutty life” all because I slept with 3 guys before him, he said he didn’t mean those but it still hurt me deeply and i cry about it almost everyday. Lately he has been saying that im too loose for his liking and that he can’t get any pleasure from me, even going as far as saying to do kegel exercises (which I do as he requested) and getting professional help. I honestly didn’t think that i was “loose”. I am only 18 but i dated 3 guys before my current boyfriend. I lost my virginity at 16 and dated the guy for 10 months. Even though i did sleep with 3 guys before (his bodycount is 8) i didn’t think it was that big of a deal, i know it was stupid and its my fault, still i think he don’t have to shame me every other day for it. He says that he will never forgive me for my past and will punish me forever. I really don’t know what to do. Help??