I’m (28F) with my boyfriend (29M) for 6 years now. We were LDR for first 3 years and during our meetups sex was good.
We are living together for past 2.5 years, now it feels we have reached boredom in the bedroom. And it’s straining our otherwise healthy and happy relationship. We discussed and talked a lot, and it feels sexual boredom is the only thing we need to work on in our relationship.
For context, we have never explored much outside the bedroom, and always talked but never actually executed things we both want (stress, laziness etc). I want to be more physically fit to have a higher stamina (and working out for that as well).
Of late, my bf (non-smoker, non-drinker) has been losing erections every time he puts on the condom, but otherwise he gets erect from simple foreplays or sexy talk. And that’s wreaking havoc in our sex life.
We really really really want this to work. I want to get back the initial passion and raw sexual desire. Please suggest what to do.