So I’m (M33) starting to see this girl(couple years older), and for our 3rd date we’re gonna have a netflix and chill kind of evening. Safe to say there might be some action, which I’m both excited for and lowkey worried about.
I’ve had penetrative sex just 2 times before, so for someone in my thirties it would be reasonable to think I’d have more experience than this. I really want to give this girl a good time.
I’m thinking I should eventually tell that I’m pretty inexperienced and would like to know what makes her feel good, so I can give it to her. I’m assuming that’s best? But when should I tell her? Before, during or after?
I’d feel awkward if we start kissing during the movie and I tell her I’m inexperienced then, before the clothes come off?
But I really want to eat her out, and don’t want it to be bad for her or to feel clueless myself while I’m down there, so maybe while I’m kissing her inner thighs I could say something like ’ I want to make you feel good, don’t hesitate to show me or tell me what you like’. And after a round of sex I’d feel more relaxed about disclosing my inexperience..? I don’t want to shock her by telling her before, if that makes sense.
In other words, when would be the best timing to tell her I’ve barely had sex?
I also want to suggest to her that she could show me or teach me what she likes, so I can give it to her. Would women apprecite this?
Is there anything else I should say?
Happy to hear any other suggestions or tips to my situation. Including on how to eat her out. 🙏
Thaaanks