So I’m pretty lucky and I found the perfect fit for me pretty early in life. I only had one sex partner before her and she only has 3 brief sex experiences before me. So all in all I consider myself lucky.
On the other hand we never had a hoe phase (which again not the worst thing in life since I am lucky in the love department.) I am very curious what sex looks like for normal couples. I’ve obviously seen it with porn and movies and I know it’s not realistic.
What we do now is usually taken turns with foreplay. Usually I start with a smaller toy then she blows me then I use a larger toy then she blows me then I usually do a little finger work/ eating out before we do the actual sex. I notice I’m a pretty quick cumer usually around the 1-2 minuet mark.
Both me and her are kinda bigger ( not huge) but we’re both pretty inflexible I would say which is weird because I’ve seen plenty of bigger people then us be able to do various positions. My wife can’t ride me because she’s inflexible and my waiste is a little too big and her legs are too big. I also have a average size penis around the 5 and a half mark so I think sometimes certain positions are hard because of her big butt too. We usually do doggy or missionary with her on the bed and me on the side.
Side note ( does any other guys struggle to not slip in missionary on the bed or is that me?)
Anyhow we are both working to get more flexible and loose weight which I know will help but still I’ve been verybsexyally frustrated being so limited and only being able to do 2 positions.
However I want to keep myself in check and not want unrealistic things and be grateful for what I do have.
Since I can’t just watch a normal couple doing it and since everything online is usually staged I’m just genuinely curious in a non horny way what real people do during sex.
I’m looking for people to give feedback on what their usual sex looks like. Do you do some sex then foreplay or do you donit like me which is all foreplay at the front and then finish with sex? Is there recommended positions we should try ? Any general advice.
If you made it this far thanks for taking the time to here me out. It felt good to vent because you can’t really talk about sex with anyone and I’ve been holding it in for a very long time. Thanks!