I’m looking for a way to conversationally handle a particular personality type. This personality is energetic in discussing themselves, leaving little room for the other. They are not bad, evil, mean, or narcissistic. Rather, they feel the need to keep repeating themselves.
Reflective listening only spurs them on. With a majority of folks, reflective listening serves as a way to move the conversation deeper. With this personality, however, reflective listening causes them to say, “exactly! Now I’m going to repeat what I just said!” Instead of allowing me to gracefully turn the conversation, or follow up on something they have just said
I get stuck into a feedback chamber loop that will not end unless I apply greater force to the conversation.
Any suggestions?