M(23) That is something i cant even talk about, it is so frustrating. Im not ugly, im kind overwheigted but i dress up nice, and im pretty sure i get some girls interested in me, im funny, im a good listener, im a good person, but when i get close to someone my head just think about nobody will love me as i see many of my friends with their couples.
When a group of people talk about their experiences with their exes i get so nervous to talk about it and avoid the subject. i think my head is super messed up, i sabbotage myself constantly, i feel very confident but suddenly this thought take my mind and just make me depressed and all.
When things start going well i just make me apart of everyone, its getting worse, i cant keep up with me, i just cant understand it, im working in my dreams and all but thins thought is gonna kill me someday.
I just need to know others have passed through this before, how can i survive this thought? of course im a virgin this makes my life worse.
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Who do you want to be, 23-year-old? You want to be a guy with a gf? What feeling would you have if you DID have a gf? Would it make you happy? Confident? The irony is if you became happy and confident without one, you’d soon have a gf.
One of these days, you’re going to have one. And when it’s time to hang out and do things, she’s gonna count on you to come up with something. And you may be at a loss because…you spent all this time wishing you had a gf.
Fill your life with FUN. Do the stuff you want, hang out with your friends. Self-improve! And when you’re fulfilled, come back here and tell us about the 8 women competing to be your gf.