I met her in my office, and after months of acquaintance, she started flirting, and soon after, we became a couple.
She really is the wonder of my world; she is my world, but I’m starting to feel like it’s all in vain. Maybe it’s me being insecure, but I feel like she prioritizes her friends more than me. She’ll listen to them before me, talk to them for long periods of time in the office without letting me know.
Anyways, this time we were going on a trip with her friends on a bus. Before, she assured me that we would be on the same bed. But during the bus ride, she shared the bed with another one of our friends (M28). Since she wants to keep it a secret from her friends, I stayed quiet. But I was visibly frustrated.
The rest of the trip, she has been ignoring me, and the little time we get to talk, she puts the blame on me. She says I should’ve asked him to move, even though she’s the one who assured me we would be together and wants to keep it a secret, so I couldn’t say anything (we had a fight about keeping it a secret before, where we almost broke up).
I really believe she’s the one. She’s charming, smart, beautiful, cute, the prettiest sweetheart in the world… but it’s starting to feel like she’s bored of me, like she doesn’t care anymore about how I feel.
She said having a packet of condoms before our relationship started is a red flag, even though I explained to her it’s for protection only, not like I’m having a lot of sex or anything with anyone at all but her. I only want her. I have allowed full access to my phone to her too, yet still, I don’t understand why she’s being like this. I can’t help but wonder if she’s being this distant because she lost interest after 3 months. She wasn’t like this before.
We used to have cute and bubbly conversations a lot; now when I call her, she tells me my voice is irritating and I’m forcing her to talk to me.
Am I being too possessive? Is it okay for me to be uncomfortable over this… she tells me I’m overthinking. I ask her to apologize for sleeping with our friends, and she just asks why…I met her in my office, and after months of acquaintance, she started flirting, and soon after, we became a couple.
She really is the wonder of my world; she is my world, but I’m starting to feel like it’s all in vain. Maybe it’s me being insecure, but I feel like she prioritizes her friends more than me. She’ll listen to them before me, talk to them for long periods of time in the office without letting me know.
Anyways, this time we were going on a trip with her friends on a bus. Before, she assured me that we would be on the same bed. But during the bus ride, she shared the bed with another one of our friends (M28). Since she wants to keep it a secret from her friends, I stayed quiet. But I was visibly frustrated.
The rest of the trip, she has been ignoring me, and the little time we get to talk, she puts the blame on me. She says I should’ve asked him to move, even though she’s the one who assured me we would be together and wants to keep it a secret, so I couldn’t say anything (we had a fight about keeping it a secret before, where we almost broke up).
I really believe she’s the one. She’s charming, smart, beautiful, cute, the prettiest sweetheart in the world… but it’s starting to feel like she’s bored of me, like she doesn’t care anymore about how I feel.
She said having a packet of condoms before our relationship started is a red flag, even though I explained to her it’s for protection only, not like I’m having a lot of sex or anything with anyone at all but her. I only want her. I have allowed full access to my phone to her too, yet still, I don’t understand why she’s being like this. I can’t help but wonder if she’s being this distant because she lost interest after 3 months. She wasn’t like this before.
We used to have cute and bubbly conversations a lot; now when I call her, she tells me my voice is irritating and I’m forcing her to talk to me.
Am I being too possessive? Is it okay for me to be uncomfortable over this… she tells me I’m overthinking. I ask her to apologize for sleeping with our friends, and she just asks why…
TLDR:- my gf went to sleep in the same bed as another guy right behind me and I’m upset over her not apologizing to me for that.