Me (30M) and my wife (27F) have an awesome sex life. Doing it multiple times a week and exploring new things in bed. Of course there’s times when I’m too tired or just not in the mood which is normal. Today my wife wanted to have sex and starting kissing my neck, but I’m simply too tired and not in the mood. She became upset and didn’t want me to touch her after that. For context we hit a rough patch for about 6 months where sex was maybe once a month and I would get turned down constantly. I tried to explain to her that she used to shut me down all the time and I didn’t act that way. How can I get her to understand it’s not personal I’m just too tired? Every time she takes it as if I don’t find her attractive when there’s plenty of nights I’ll jump her bones.