Hi, I’ve been married 10 years with 2 beautiful kids.
Over our 10year marriage, my husband has been cheating for around 7 of those years. I’ve given him chance after chance but he never did anything to resolve his issues.
He ended up manipulating me and gaslighting me into thinking he was open and honest and has changed.
I recently found out he never stopped messaging women and even went to the extent of lying about his age to meet young women half his age. He is a narcissist and has a mental condition he needs to resolve.
I don’t want the kids to have a broken family and still love and care for him.
My question is, am I just being stupid? Or is there hope for narcissists / cheaters to ever change their ways of they acknowledge their wrongdoing and seek proper help?