During phone sex with my boyfriend, I was enjoying it at first but then it was getting to the point where it wasn’t feeling good anymore. I usually like it rough but I wasn’t feeling it today and I had came so many times that I couldn’t cum anymore.
I said it’s getting too much once and I don’t think I can keep going but he told me don’t stop. I wanted to say I want to stop but I didn’t know how to. I felt like I had to keep going but I wasn’t enjoying it and I just wanted it to stop
He could tell I was upset after and we talked it through a bit but not enough. He wanted to cheer me up and make me happy. But I just feel upset still and used, even though it’s not his fault. I have trouble saying no or stop, even though I feel so safe with him
Should I talk to him more about how I feel? I feel upset and violated and hurt but it’s my own fault. I couldn’t speak up
Edit: People aren’t understanding what I’m saying. I know I could’ve stopped or hung up or told him no I wanna stop. I just don’t know why I felt I couldn’t and then felt bad about it after. I already feel bad enough about myself. I was just looking for advice of how to go forward