So a guy I’ve been casual with for a while, just asked me about joining a threesome or foursome. Then the number grew and now there’s another girl that’s interested, and it’ll be a fivesome.
I did ask if its okay if I can bring another guy in, as I feel like with four women it might be a bit hard for everybody to be adequately focused on each other. We are all bi from what I can tell, but I feel like another partner added to the mix that isn’t another girl would be helpful. Especially since I like penetration and the casual partner I do have, he gets way too nervous to perform PIV except oral.
Well he said no as he wants to be the only guy there, and he might get anxious which is valid. But I’m not sure if a fivesome like this would work without leaving one person feeling left out. I don’t mind dropping out of it so it’s a bit more fair, as 5 is an odd number and 6 just seems perfect. But I don’t want another girl added and wouldn’t mind exploring with two guys in the same room as other women haha.
Would this realistically work without people feeling left out? That’s my only worry going forward as I want everybody to have fun and feel satisfied.
Edit: the guy said he’d start a train and be at the back giving head, but also now my worry is comfortability. Sitting on someone’s face can get tiresome, and eating someone out from behind can also hurt neck muscles after so long. Just seems like it’s bound to be a pretty meh experience.