I’m 19F, and I have a hard time making new friends, especially male friends.
Don’t get me wrong, I have great female friendships and there is no form of jealousy or hostility between us because we’re all equally very pretty in our own ways.
Ever since I was a kid, every guy I was friends with has developed a crush on me and when they do and I don’t reciprocate it, I get awkward with them because I keep thinking i’m hurting them more by talking to them.
That’s the case even to this day.
I’m afraid that if i get even slightly friendly with a guy he will take it in a wrong way.
In class i only hang out with my girls. Guys have no problem in approaching them even if it’s just as friends but they never do the same for me.So i thought maybe I should make an effort and make the first move, but they just move further away thinking i’m giving them hints or something.
My friends get asked out by guys a lot too.
But not once has a non creepy guy asked me out.
I purposely have to put less efforts in the way I look so that I can fit in and people take me seriously. I wear loose clothes, no makeup, and barely have I worn anything revealing.
I wanna know from the guys here, what makes you not want to approach a girl or be friends with her?