This post is asking for advice from mainly girls only, or guys with past such experiences.
My girlfriend is obsessed with my ex in ways that are ruining our relationship. At the start of our relationship i fell for her trap of “tell me everything it’s okay”, but since then things have been relaxed in that regard, up until recently(almost a year later) she started obsessing about her.
Just to be clear i have not mentioned my ex and she’s literally blocked on my number and my every social app. But recently it turns out she knows where my ex lives and where she’s from and a lot of fbi shit(normal for girls ig?) and now she started relating a lot of things to my ex, not only that but also comparing things with her.
It got too ridiculous that even when i mentioned smth about the country where my ex was from(russia, big a** russia, and it was completely unrelated to women) she got upset and wouldn’t even talk to me saying she wishes i married her so she never met me.
I promise you i don’t mention anything about my ex, or even think slightly about her, but somehow she’s obsessed with her, it got to the point of “i bet u said that to her” whenever i say loving words..
I don’t know what to do? Sweet talk seems to make things worse, ignoring the subject also doesn’t help, trying to tell her things like how she’s the only girl in my heart n mind apparently made it way worse.
She’s upset now, we going on a date tomorrow. Girls, help please?