My girlfriend of around 8 months ghosted me. She was the first woman I was intimate with and it really hurt that she’s now blocked me. She asked me about my scars and I lied as I wasn’t comfortable telling her and since then she slow faded me out and now she’s blocked me after I tried calling her. I can’t do well in relationships at all. I’m 6 ft 1, get told I’m handsome, used to have a really great job but was made redundant so now have one where I’m earning half my salary. I’ve been in therapy for a long time, made a ton of improvements but I just want to settle down with a woman and have kids, a dog and a nice small house with a garden. I love flowers and animals especially dogs and elephants. I really feel so lonely a lot of the times because I desperately want some human connection. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, I know it takes a while for me to warm up to someone but it just seems some people can jump from one relationship to another and yet it can take me years to get into another relationship again. What can I do to make myself attractive or at least desirable?