Not sure if this is the right place to post, but here it is. I’ve been attending multiple social events of my interests and met probably over 100 people and I’ve only made less than 5 connections, none of which proactively reach out.
I’ve already tried to make conversation by actively listening, making relevant comments to the conversations, and yet doesn’t feel like I’m reaching a broader connection with many people.
What saved it is me busting out card games. Is there anything I can do to improve?
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So you expect to force people to be your frineds and be the one to contact you?
You go to social events to socialize not make friends.
If you find a person you want stay in contact with YOU have to be the one to initiate and maintain contact.
People connect based on positive emotion. Have you tried that?