Don’t know whether to think this is a huge red flag or if I’m overthinking.
Recently found out my boyfriend of 8 years has been on a nsfw subreddit called “legal teens”. I’m sure most of you can understand what the posts on there would be of.
Is this a really big red flag?? To me it feels like it is, like that’s definitely a red flag for me, but I need other opinions. Do you think it’s really bad or not as bad as I’m thinking it is?
I just find it really gross and super weird. We’ve always talked about how gross & weird it is when people early-mid 20’s & older think freshly 18 year olds are attractive or wants to be with someone who is freshly 18. Just screams big red flad. So it feels like I don’t really know who he is.. why would he be going on a subreddit like that if he truly thinks that stuff is gross/not okay?
Also just the name of it.. it literally has the word “teen” in it…clearly we all know what kind of person this is attracting..just so disgusting.
I’m just kind of really in my head and disappointed.. don’t know what to think.
Tldr; boyfriend was on a nsfw subreddit called “legal teens”, we’ve always talked about how things like this are super gross/not okay/weird. Is this a huge red flag or am I overthinking.