F23, my boyfriend is M23 and we’ve been dating for 3 years. We used to have more sex but now we’re down to 2 times a week. I’ve noticed the lack of sex is mostly from my lack of interest in sex, even though I used to be quite interested. For reference we have a great sex life and my boyfriend is a giver, something that used to turn me on a A TON but now I often refuse receiving individual pleasure as id rather just have sex. I brought it up to my boyfriend and mentioned that I wanted to initiate more but I’m struggling with getting turned on or interested in sex in the first place. It’s like a switch has been turned off inside of me and I’ve forgotten how to get aroused. My boyfriend asked me what he could do to turn me on and it was very sweet and kind but… I didn’t have an answer. I don’t have a secret kink or fantasy, I don’t know what turns me on anymore. He typically initiates foreplay by touching and grabbing and I don’t have any alternatives to offer him. Is something wrong with me?