I (21F) been casually hooking up with the same guy a few times now, but he’s never indicated that he wants me to go down on him or even give him a hand job so I haven’t. I’ve always been on the receiving end of everything which he seems satisfied with but isn’t something we’ve openly spoken about. How do I know that he’s not just waiting for me to initiate something on my end? If he wants me to start reciprocating more, how should I initiate that casually?
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I would just ask him straight up! You could tell him it’s a fantasy of yours if you want
Guys are not going to ask
Most of us don’t want to actually have to ask. We want our women to just want to suck us off. Beyond that the world will tell him hes selfish for asking so he may be afraid to.
Will be so much easier to say it in a text if you’re shy
“Hey, can’t wait to meet up again and put some lipstick on your dipstick 👄🍆:”
Yes, use the emoji’s. If that freaks him out (which I doubt) at least you’d know before the next time you see him
Guys do to ask but some don’t but 99.9% of the time will ALWAYS want oral!!
“Can I suck your dick? Pretty please?” Has been a good go-to in my experience
**Just casually reach down and start playing with the area near his crotch and see how he reacts. If he doesn’t stop you, then go for it! Communication is key, but sometimes it’s easier to just test the waters first. Good luck!**
Um…’OK?’ 😂 girl, it is ALWAYS ok to give him head. Who TF would complain?!