I 27m went through my 25f girlfriend’s phone and didn’t like what I saw.
I have been getting really serious with my girlfriend lately as we have been dating for just over a year. I am starting to think she is the one but I have serious trust issues. Before diving into this 100% I wanted to see her phone to ease my mind and give assurance. I’ve never done anything like this before honestly I’m just so scared of making the wrong decision in life. I know it’s not right but I still did it.
While looking through her dms on instagram I noticed a few guys hit her up to hookup or hangout and she usually shuts them down with a I have a boyfriend and they back off. But this one guy she replied to after asking her to hangout said “I would but I have a boyfriend” which he could clearly see from the pictures. He responded with blow him off for the night let’s have some fun and she hearted it and said “nooo im loyal hahaha”. he said good you passed the test and she hearted it.
Now I know she didn’t really do anything wrong here. I’m very happy she shut him down. But I don’t like her leaving the door open. “I would if I wasn’t with him” made me so angry. I want to confront her over this but the fact that I went through her phone doesn’t give me a leg to stand on. Should I confront her anyway?
Tl;dr I went through my girlfriends phone and saw her say to a guy that asked her to a
Hangout. If I didn’t have a boyfriend I would. It pissed me off but idk if she did anything wrong enough to call her out.