How should I handle this situation with my husband? My husband and I got married 5 months ago. For valentine’s day I was really excited since this was our first valentine’s together as a married couple and planned to go on a little day adventure for it. He didn’t plan anything, but I didn’t mind taking charge of the plans since he’s super busy! We agreed to do this on valentine’s day, both took off work but he forgot to submit his PTO. So we planned to have our little adventure this weekend but he decided to go on a trip with his friends and completely forgot about our plans. I also made dinner reservations for us a while ago and he said would think about it because he wanted to save money for his trip and asked me to take off next week to do something but it’s too last minute where my company wouldn’t approve it. He is amazing in every other aspect but don’t feel like a priority sometimes with stuff like this that really does matter to me. I don’t know if I am overreacting or how I should handle this situation because this stuff tends to happen and he doesn’t seem to understand why it upsets me no matter how I explain it.