TD;LR – I (F25) and my FWB (M30) hung out and chatted regularly. Then, he stopped for 2 weeks, so i thought it was over. But now he’s just come back with the hint of being busy at work. What bothers me is lack of communication from him. But i don’t want to act like i’m his gf (like i have to know what’s going on & everything) either. What should i do?
I (F25) and my FWB (M30) hung out every week for a couple of months and he sent me a lot of messages. He disappeared for 2 weeks then came back. He told me without me asking that he was busy about work (working 6 days a week so he saved Sunday for himself).
But i don’t like the lack of communication which i thought it was over at first and i’ve already looked for new guys. I don’t want to act like i’m his gf so i have to know what was going on with him etc. But lack of communication bothers me a lot in the level that i assumed i was ghosted.
Please note that i don’t mean i wanna be his gf or i have romantic feelings for him. But i just don’t like people being silent out of the blue in general. Should i communicate with him or just fade myself away from him? (If I should communicate with him, how to make it sound appropriate? I don’t want to get misunderstood that i’m falling in love with him or something.)