My husband [33M] and I [31F] are going through a rocky time in our marriage, together for 12 years/married for 10 years. He has been struggling with an addiction, which has been causing a lot of turmoil currently. It’s usually a back and forth cycle we have. We have been trying to talk through this for this past week. Many feelings and resentments have been brought up in the process that aren’t directly related to his addiction.
Well today my husband told me that he would leave/divorce me if we could no longer have sex, no matter what. Before we got married this was something we had talked about to which he told me the opposite. He’s admitting he lied to me about it. I would sacrifice my sex life for him. I feel like crap knowing he’d drop me like I’m damaged goods… I feel so betrayed as well.
I feel like this is the final breaking point, how could I move past this with him? Can our marriage be repaired this time? I’m having this horrible feeling this time.
TL;DR! – Husband told me if we could no longer have sex, he would divorce me.