I, 30F, have been married to my husband, 30M, for 4 years. We have known each other for well over 10 years.
I am so tired of repeating myself. I remind him about appointments, chores, and other things constantly and it seems like it doesn’t stick.
Ive set reminders for him, made sticky notes, and have sat down with him to express my frustration numerous times (calmly and angrily). We’ve gone to marriage counseling too.
I’m scared about what he’ll be like when we decide to have a child.
It’s draining. I feel like more of a mother than a wife. My family says, “it’s just the way he is and you just have to accept it.”
I don’t think this is a means for divorce but it feels like I’m losing my fucking mind. The amount of times I have to constantly remind him about stuff and repeat myself is making me less and less attracted to him.