I’ve been on 2 first dates with 2 different women last weekend.
Both dates went good but nothing over the top. We didn’t kiss or anything but we texted after the date saying we wanted to see one another soon.
I have much more interest for one of these women, but I’m unable to determine whether she’s as interested as I am.
Past experiences taught me to never even try to guess or assume anything.
Now, I had a conversation with the woman I’m less attracted to and it makes me wonder if I even want to see her again.
Per her, if I didn’t feel the desire or urge to hold her into my arms (whether I actually did it or not), then it’s a clear sign I’m not really interested.
I personally think that’s a bit of an extreme expectation after only a first date, even though we spent 5 hours together and had a good time.
I wonder what’s your take on this, men, how do you know you really are attracted to the woman you date and you want to see her again after the first date?
Do you give yourself more time to determine that or do you know right away with an absolute certainty?