For the past 24 months I have been struggling with my wife of 15 years being increasingly distant and resistant to my touch.
I have tried everything possible to figure out what I can do to remedy things. (Therapy, work/life schedules, habit changes, friend changes, physical appearance l, the list goes on)
She told me for the last 10 years, she has found sex repulsive and disgusting (had 3 kids within that time)
Our youngest is now 6 and just knowing that she hasn’t wanted to touch me for 10 years is both shocking and extremely hurtful.
I have tried expressing my feelings and importance of physical touch, but it’s like talking to a wall.
I am lost, broken, hurt and don’t know where to turn. I love her with all my heart.
Feel free to ask questions and I’ll do my best to respond.