I’m naturally more of a submissive woman in the bedroom, it’s more what I’m into and I lack the confidence to really take charge. Most times my boyfriend is totally down to dom, but sometimes he wants to switch things up and be submissive.
He’s revealed he’s always fantasized about having his face sat on, the idea of being used really turns him on. We’ve tried it a couple times and he really loves it, but he wants me to talk more. He says when I’m silent for too long it starts to feel less kinky and more like regular sex. I don’t want to detract from his experience, but when I try to think of dommy things to say I end up panicking a little bit and I can’t fully focus on the pleasure.
What can I say while I’m up there to make him feel more submissive? Last time I told him I loved watching him struggle to breath and he seemed to like that. He’s also mentioned possibly being into called a sex toy or things of that nature. Im willing to try a variety of things and then we can work together to figure out what he likes best, so any and all suggestions would be appreciated!