So it’s not that I never enjoy sex, sometimes it’s great. But sometimes I just am not feeling into the act itself but I enjoy giving my partner pleasure. Basically I enjoymaking him cum quickly. So sometimes I will ask for a quickie, but he just insist on prolonging sex. I don’t know how to explain this to him because he insist he can’t enjoy himself unless I’m enjoying myself. So instead of us both getting what we want, we just don’t have sex a lot of the time…it’s really frustrating because it’s feels like most of the time neither of us has the energy for the kind of sex he wants and he won’t have quick sex, so we just don’t have sex at all. I don’t know what to do…