I am in a 2nd marriage, grown kids, me 52, him 57. I married with Savings in bank, debt free and he is very in debt! Several credit cards at 30% interest rates, student loan debt of 100 grand. My question is HE thinks we should combine our income and tackle ALL our debts together or I’m not being a team player now were married. I feel differently and I do want to help with his debts but I’m also not willing to give up my savings. I went through a 30 year marriage from hell and had to sell my house to get where I’m at today. I’m on the fence with sharing debts when he accumulated these before we even met. Opinions?