She sleeps in usually hours later than me and I have to frequently wake her up. I truly hate this and it’s a turn off. We also have a 5 yr old and she sleeps in later than our kid most of the time. She hasn’t worked much either in 8 years of marriage. hasn’t had a full time job. I’m the bread winner. If she worked full time I probably wouldn’t be as bothered by it because I could understand needed R&R. Anyone else annoyed by this and how do you proceed?