I started talking to this guy and from the start we both agreed to keep it casual.
He was a known flirt but extremely respectful so I didn’t mind his past.
He has a friend that always tries to get him to talk to other girls with him etc. Whenever my man tells him he doesn’t want to do something because of me he will agree for a short period of time then proceed to ask him.
(I’m just gonna call my my man Alex)
His friend has a lot of money and offered to take him on vacation. Alex declined and I was really concerned. I don’t want him to feel like he can’t live his life and enjoy his time. He’s single so it’s not fair for me to step in.
Alex told me he was scared to go because his friend only wanted to talk to girls. I said I understand that but we are causal. Alex was adamant about not going. He got really scared and nervous and said he would be more tempted to talk to girls in this situation and he doesn’t want to upset me and jeopardize our relationship. He declined and refused to go.
I felt really honored but at the same time I feel like I’m getting in the way of him living his life. In the beginning he said he wasn’t ready for commitment because he’s going to med school and he’s focused on himself. I felt the same way.
We moved away from each other & decided to be friends nothing romantic .
I noticed he compares other girls to me and has been burning bridges with women by unintentionally leading them on.
I’m not sure if I’m the reason he’s reluctant to take other girls seriously. I have been feeling a little guilty about this I feel like I’ve gotten in the way of things. I know it’s not my fault, I’ve never experienced a situation like this before and I’m not sure if this is how is supposed to go ? Or if he’s changing his old ways?
We still talk every single day and he always calls me a couple times a week.
Ahhh I just want the best for him I’m confident in what we have but I feel like it turned into something I was not prepared for. We have a good friendship but I feel like I turned into THE “girl best friend”.